Girls Will Be Girls

Every day, new girls are asked a series of controlled questions. All answers are inputted exactly as they are stated, nothing is changed by the author. This blog was started by Arnelle in order to observe the minds of women and their general perception of men and relationships. It was created with the intention that anyone would be able to read this blog, and from studying a mass of answers from women, then be able to draw conclusions as they deem necessary or accurate. None of the author's views are expressed, placing emphasis on the fact that the reader is encouraged to formulate his/her own opinions, without any sway from the author. Women surveyed can choose to remain anonymous if they wish, and they can make their answers as thorough or vague as they please. Answers WILL be raw and real, so as a forewarning, no offense is intended.

December 17, 2009

Arnelle Lozada.

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(SINCE ARNELLE IS THE CREATOR OF THIS BLOG, THIS ENTRY WAS TYPED BY ARTURO TORRES)
Age: 24
Location: Bay Area, soon to be LA
Occupation: TV show host, freelance designer (graphic and fashion), writer
Top 5: Shit…um…it’s always shifting. It’s whoever’s music I just listened to, whoever’s movie I just saw. And sometimes dudes look so good one minute, and so wack the next. (laughs) Next question.

Last relationship? Longest relationship?
Last relationship was a little over 2 years ago, longest was the one before that, and it was 4 years.

Best thing about men?
In so many ways, they remind me of me. (laughs) Not in a conceited way at all…but more like in a sense of we see eye to eye on levels most females don’t even get.

Worst thing about men?
The fact that when we DON’T see eye to eye, some of them see it as grounds for half-truths, or justified lying. (shakes head) That shit’s never right. Just be honest. I’ll give less of a shit about your negatives and focus more on your positives if you just stay real.

Boxers or briefs, on him? Thongs or boy shorts, on you?
Boxer-briefs or boxers are the business. Boxer-briefs cuz you can see their booty (laughs). On me…I’m gonna have to say I prefer boy shorts…or nothing. (smiles)

Nice guy or jerk?
A jerk who’s a nice guy at heart. Fuck a nice guy who’s a jerk at heart.

A deep, dark fantasy you’ve had?
I’m obsessed with vampires. Let’s just leave it at that. (giggles)

When was the last time you cried over a boy?
Hmm…the last time I cried over a boy…was the last time I felt the boy was WORTH crying over. Yup. (giggles)

What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done to a boy?
(laughs…hard) I’m gonna go with…pantsed a dude in PE in high school…

Define an over-protective and/or possessive man.
Yikes…I’ve never really had one…thank God. But from hearing stories from friends…I’ll be specific with this one. Includes but is not limited to…texting or calling your fuckin friend’s phones to get in touch with you. Don’t do it boys.

How important is good sex in a relationship?
It is the one and only key to a good relationship…(laughs)…no I’m kidding. I WILL say it’s essential in building passion.

Have you ever cheated?
Nope.

Have you ever been with a man you thought you’d marry? If so, when did that change?
Um…I didn’t like firmly believe I was gonna marry him…BUT the thought crossed my mind. That changed when I let go of him for selfless reasons and found out it was for the better.

Strongest lesson a man has ever taught you?
(sighs) To love unconditionally. All men I’ve ever cared about have taught me that, that’s the one lesson that remained consistent. Cuz they all fuck up regardless, we all do. So you have to make peace with them by making peace with yourself. And the key to that is loving unconditionally, in my opinion.

Anything else?
Ain’t no dude like the one you want! And I’m really glad I started these cooleriffic survey things. (smiles)

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December 17, 2009

Anais Morgan

twitter.com/absolutelyace
Age: 24
Location: Atlanta, GA
Occupation: Freelance stylist, brand manager
Top 5: Mmm. Dallas is my number 1, cuz he’s my boyfriend. (laughs) Barack Obama, Muhammad Ali…cuz they’re awesome. Johnny Depp of course, and Marc Jacobs.

Last relationship? Longest relationship?
My current relationship is my longest relationship and it is almost 4 years, and solid.

Best thing about men?
Hmm…I would say, the best thing is also their worst thing, their naivete about everything. It’s the best because there’s a realness and raw-ness to them, like what you see is what you get.

Worst thing about men?
Same as the last question. It’s their worst because it’s almost like you can’t sway them. Almost like a child. (laughs) They’re set in their ways.

Boxers or briefs, on him? Thongs or boy shorts, on you?
Um, I actually like boxer-briefs on him, and on me, I actually like the bikini cut, which is in beteen. That’s kinda weird how I like the in-between of both. (giggles)

Nice guy or jerk?
Honestly, a jerk. (giggles)

A deep, dark fantasy you’ve had?
A deep dark fantasy…hmmm…when you say deep and dark that automatically sounds sexual (laughs)…damn I don’t know. Hmm…I don’t know. I guess that means I live out all my fantasies…

When was the last time you cried over a boy?
Hm…well, I cried over my little brother that’s a boy (giggles). He frustrates me. That counts right? (laughs)

What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done to a boy?
Huh. No comment. (laughs)

Define an over-protective and/or possessive man.
I would actually say over-protective is different from possessive. Over-protective, I look at that as someone who’s genuinely concerned with you and your well-being…so they sort of treat you like you’re a fragile egg and you can’t function in society. Whereas possessive is a selfish motivation.

How important is good sex in a relationship?
Um…I would say, I know it probably sounds pretty superficial…but pretty damn important. And that’s real, anybody who says anything else is a damn liar. (chuckles)

Have you ever cheated?
No.

Have you ever been with a man you thought you’d marry? If so, when did that change?
Yes, I currently am, and it hasn’t changed. And I’ve never been in a situation where it did change…where I thought I could then I thought I couldn’t…I just didn’t.

Strongest lesson a man has ever taught you?
Oooh. I would say that has to come from my father, and I think it was strongest just because it was impactful…and that was at the end of the day, I can only hold myself accountable.

Anything else?
By anything else, I don’t have an album coming out, no clothing line, not in a music video, not on a reality show…so that’s probably it. (laughs)

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December 17, 2009

Serena Murillo.

Age: 23
Location: San Jose, CA
Occupation: Dance teacher, REC leader
Top 5: That’s kinda hard. I don’t have guys. (laughs) Nas, I have my reasons. That Channing Tatum guy, um…shit…I don’t know. Let me go look around my room (laughs). Eligh from Living Legends, Tyson Beckford, and Travis from Gym Class Heroes.

Last relationship? Longest relationship?
It was a year and a half ago, and that was 4 years.

Best thing about men?
Personality. I like how they’re very…women tend to be very catty…so I like men cuz they’re easy to get along with.

Worst thing about men?
Um…they lie too much, even when it’s not necessary..

Boxers or briefs, on him? Thongs or boy shorts, on you?
Boxers. I like both for me. Can I put that?

Nice guy or jerk?
NIce guy!

A deep, dark fantasy you’ve had?
Um…let’s see. I haven’t really had any. (laughs)

When was the last time you cried over a boy?
Six months ago…over my ex-fiance.

What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done to a boy?
I can’t say. (laughs)

Define an over-protective and/or possessive man.
Ok…one, he has to know where you’re at, at all times. They have to know what you’re gonna wear when you’re going out, who exactly you’re going out with, and what time you’ll be home.

How important is good sex in a relationship?
I think it’s very important.

Have you ever cheated?
Define cheating…no just kidding. No I haven’t. (laughs)

Have you ever been with a man you thought you’d marry? If so, when did that change?
Yes, it changed when his real true self submerged, and I found out a lot of lies that he’d been telling me the whole time. (sighs)

Strongest lesson a man has ever taught you?
Um…stay true to myself.

Anything else?
Um…nah. (giggles)

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December 17, 2009

Anonymous #1.

Age: 20
Location: Hercules, CA
Occupation: Student
Top 5: Aw fuck, aw man this is hard! Ok let’s see…let’s do Brad Pitt (laughs), um…don’t make fun of me ok? (chuckles) Edward Cullen, Chris Brown, Trey Songz, and fuck I can’t think of one more.

Last relationship? Longest relationship?
Currently in a relationship. 3 years.

Best thing about men?
Whoa. Oh man! Can we skip that one?!

Worst thing about men?
They cheat.

Boxers or briefs, on him? Thongs or boy shorts, on you?
I like boy shorts…and uhh…boxers or briefs…I like boxers.

Nice guy or jerk?
Jerk. (laughs)

A deep, dark fantasy you’ve had?
(chuckles) Oh my gosh…oh mannn…um…a deep, dark fantasty. Well, um…I’ll come back to this one I promise.

When was the last time you cried over a boy?
Last month. Um…my ex boyfriend was trying to get back with and was talking about how he was ready to change for me, and I didn’t know what to do. I wasn’t sure if I should leave him.

What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done to a boy?
Um…(giggles)…uh fuck! This is hard! I don’t know skip this.

Define an over-protective and/or possessive man.
Um…tells you what you can and can’t where, tells you where you can and can’t go.

How important is good sex in a relationship?
Very important. Extremely important.

Have you ever cheated?
No.

Have you ever been with a man you thought you’d marry? If so, when did that change?
No, uh well…yes…now. The one I’m with now. (giggles)

Strongest lesson a man has ever taught you?
Um…eff…uh…always put yourself first.

Anything else?
Keep it movin. (laughs)

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